A Hemingway character was asked how he went bankrupt. "Two ways," he replied: "Gradually, then suddenly." That's a fine description of how I sold a house in a buyer's market this summer.
How it happened gradually: I inherited the house in October 2021, fixed it up bit by bit, and finally listed it for sale in June 2025.
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