A few kind words can change someone’s outlook, and National Compliment Day celebrates those brief exchanges that stick longer than expected. Compliments often arrive with a reflex to dodge them, but letting one sit instead of brushing it aside does more than save an awkward second. With a few simple words of appreciation, confidence can get a quiet boost on a random day, without the need for any grand speech.
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