It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of work, taking care of your family and spending time with others. But when do you take time for yourself?
Janeese Spencer, owner of Venture Life Coaching, spoke at this year's Alexander City Chamber of Commerce Annual Lead Forward Women’s Conference and Business Expo, where she discussed the importance of women taking care of their mental health to truly live life to the fullest.
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