Perimenopause has become a cultural flashpoint. Nearly 95% of women who identify as being in perimenopause report fatigue and exhaustion, not hallmark symptoms like hot flashes and night sweats, according to a global survey published in Menopause. The disconnect between what women actually experience and what is widely recognized plays out in real time, with unexpected consequences.

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