For a growing number of Americans, self-care doesn’t look like a meditation app or a structured morning routine. It looks like standing over a hot grill at the end of a long week, not to impress anyone or perfect a technique, but simply to exhale. A recent survey puts a name to something millions of people have quietly been doing for years: treating the grill not as a performance, but as a release.
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