A year ago, four families received gut-wrenching news no parent ever wants to hear.
On the night of April 15, 2023, four mothers and fathers received news that their beloved family member had been killed in a mass shooting. Those parents had allowed their child to go to a birthday party with the intention of having fun and making memories with their friends. They had no idea that night would result in grief, sadness and pain.
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