As the coronavirus pandemic continues and the risk of exposure remains the same, pregnant mothers and those who have recently given birth have missed out on some normal aspects of motherhood.
From canceled baby showers to solo doctors’ appointments and not having post-birth visitors, a couple local women shared their experiences during this unprecedented time.
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