This article is mainly about my mama but it is my hope that as you read it, it will make you think of yours. We had a sit down talk one afternoon, Daddy had already died and Mama was in deep thought.
“Ronald,” she said, “I’m afraid most of the things I love the most will be scattered and lost when I’m gone.”
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