Three weeks ago, we received word that a longtime friend had passed away. We were granted the privilege of being godparents to her children. My wife was recovering from back surgery, and we did not know whether we would be able to travel.
One of the godchildren called and told us that the funeral had been delayed, and that gave my wife time to be checked by her doctor for travel.
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