Chronic illness is similar to mental illness in it isn’t widely advocated for, it’s something many don’t understand or have much knowledge of and it’s hard to talk about.
I have suffered with chronic pain for 10 years. Let that sink in — I’m only 24 years old and I’ve spent a decade of my body fighting itself. It’s not fair and it’s hard, but believe me when I say I’m tough, and I can speak for those like me and say they’re tough too.
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