This week I received a letter to the editor from The Stuttering Foundation of America that said, “Stuttering is the only disability people still laugh at but we’re working to change that.” It got me thinking.
Disabilities aren’t funny. While some are more severe than others, a disability is a disability. By definition, it is a physical or mental condition that limits a person’s movements, senses or activities.
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