I’ve been teaching my son and daughter to play chess the last few months. I happily recall my dad doing the same with me, both kneeling in the living room floor around the ottoman on which the board was set.
It always warms my heart when Kodi asks, “can we play chess, daddy?” (At age 9, she’s usually concerned after school with Just Dance 4 or the latest episode of “Good Luck Charlie”)
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