“May the Lord give strength to his people! May the Lord bless his people with peace!” — Psalm 29:11
One of the tragic losses of our culture is that most children become adults and leave home without a formal blessing from their parents as they go. Perhaps in some families the ancient practice is still observed in which a parent pronounces a solemn blessing on sons and daughters as they gain their independence. But it’s rare.
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