There are so many reasons that I love the game of golf. Through a lifetime of trying to play at my very best and teach others this tremendous game, I have found that it runs such a close parallel to many facets of life.Â
During my battle with cancer and putting up with the many side effects that came along with chemo and radiation, I learned to adapt to adversity and accept the changes in me quickly. I learned to do so through the game of golf.
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