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A couple's therapist has revealed the most obvious signs of micro-cheating in a relationship — and how to prevent it.
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Couples therapist Dr. Anna Elton says intent matters when it comes to "micro-cheating". (Mo Mendes / Dr. Anna Elton via SWNS)
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