“On my honor I will do my best to do my duty to God and my country and to obey the Scout Law; to help other people at all times; to keep myself physically strong, mentally awake and morally straight.” — The Scout Oath
Several years ago, an acquaintance approached me and asked, “Why isn’t your son in Boy Scouts?”
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