Back in December, I wrote in the Columbus Ledger-Enquirer about how it was one of my toughest holidays because my family was going through a divorce.Â
No, my marriage is fine as well as those of my relatives. As for my church family, it’s another matter. But there are some recent encouraging signs that show there’s hope for many in the United Methodist Church.
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