A Redditor recently shared that even on a salary of $88,000 at age 29, they are struggling to pay their bills.
Between a mortgage on a “starter home,” supporting a wife and baby at home, and everyday expenses, this Redditor doesn’t feel like they can get a handle on their cash flow and asked for advice on what to do.
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