Nothing tests a coworker’s character faster than an unlabeled leftover in a shared office fridge. Employees are packing back into offices as attendance rules tighten, and the unwritten fridge etiquette clearly didn’t survive the years apart. Between the mess, the passive-aggressive notes and the lunches that keep disappearing, the fridge has become an unlikely stage for office culture.
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