(MIDDLETOWN, CT) It’s common to hear casual descriptions of “schizophrenic” behavior, describing a person oscillating between two extremes.
“I really want that luxurious Italian cashmere sweater,” followed by “What am I saying? I can’t even afford a $20 polyester top right now!”
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